Uburyo Bwihariye bwo Gukurura Umugisha (Favour) n’Iterambere mu Buzima: Amabanga yo Gutangira Umunsi Uvuga Ijambo ry’Ubugingo
Mu buzima bwa muntu, buri wese aba yifuza kugira umugisha, gukundwa, kugira amahirwe, no kubona iterambere mu byo akora. Hari ababyita “favour”, abandi bakabyita “ubuntu bw’Imana”, ariko byose bisobanura ikintu kimwe: ni igihe ibintu bikugendekera neza utabihatiye cyane, ukabona amahirwe adasanzwe, abantu bakagushyigikira, ndetse n’inzira zikugana ku ntsinzi zigakinguka.
Uyu munsi tugiye kuvuga ku buryo bworoshye ariko bufite imbaraga bwo gutangira umunsi wawe, bukagufasha gukurura umugisha, gukomeza kwizera, no gutuma ubuzima bwawe buhinduka mu buryo bwiza.
1. Gutangira Umunsi Uvuga Ijambo ry’Ubugingo
Hari uburyo bworoshye ariko bukomeye bwo gutangira umunsi wawe, buhereye ku kintu cyoroshye nk’ubuki (honey). Uko bikorwa ni uku:
- Buri gitondo ukimara kubyuka, mbere yo koza amenyo cyangwa kuvuga n’umuntu uwo ari we wese
- Fata utubuki duke (honey) ugashyira mu kanwa
- Shyira ikiganza cyawe cy’ibumoso ku gahanga
- Fata umwanya wo gusenga no kwivugisha amagambo meza (affirmations)
Ibi si ubupfumu cyangwa amarozi, ahubwo ni uburyo bwo kwibutsa umutima wawe n’ubwenge bwawe ko uri umuntu ufite agaciro, ufite intego, kandi ushoboye.
2. Impamvu Ibi Bikora mu Buzima
a) Umutwe nk’irembo ry’ubuzima
Abantu benshi bemera ko umutwe ari ho haturuka ibitekerezo byose. Iyo utekereza neza, ubuzima bwawe burahinduka.
Bibiliya iravuga iti:
“Ntimwishushanye n’iki gihe, ahubwo muhindurwe n’uko ubwenge bwanyu bushya.” (Abaroma 12:2)
Ibi bivuze ko impinduka nyayo itangirira mu bitekerezo byawe.
b) Ikiganza nk’aho ubuzima buherera
Mu kiganza harimo umurongo w’ubuzima (life line). Gushyira ikiganza ku gahanga ni nk’ikimenyetso cyo guhuza ibitekerezo byawe n’icyerekezo cyawe.
c) Ubuki nk’ikimenyetso cy’ubugingo n’umugisha
Mu Bibiliya, ubuki bugaragazwa nk’ikintu cyiza, kiryoheye ubuzima.
“Amagambo meza ameze nk’ubuki, aryoshye ku mutima kandi akiza amagufwa.” (Imigani 16:24)
3. Gusenga no Kwivugisha Amagambo Meza
Iyo uri muri uwo mwanya, ugomba:
- Gusenga n’umutima wawe wose
- Kwifuriza ibyiza
- Kuvuga ibyo wifuza nk’aho byamaze kuba
Urugero rw’amagambo wavuga:
- “Ndi umuntu ufite umugisha”
- “Imiryango yose irankingukiye”
- “Ndatsinda mu byo nkora byose”
- “Amafaranga aranzamo mu buryo butandukanye”
Bibiliya iravuga iti:
“Ururimi rufite imbaraga zo gutanga ubugingo cyangwa urupfu.” (Imigani 18:21)
4. Gukoresha Izina rya Yesu mu Gusenga
Hari abibaza niba bakoresha izina rya Yesu mu gusenga. Igisubizo ni Yego.
Izina rya Yesu rifite imbaraga zikomeye cyane.
“Izina rya Yesu buri knee izaryunamira.” (Abafilipi 2:10)
“Icyo muzansaba cyose mu izina ryanjye, nzagikora.” (Yohana 14:13)
Iyo usenga ukoresheje izina rya Yesu, uba werekana ukwizera kwawe no kwemera imbaraga z’Imana.
5. Gukaraba mu maso no gukomeza gahunda yawe
Nyuma yo gusenga:
- Tegereza iminota nka 20
- Karaba mu maso n’amazi asanzwe
- Hanyuma woze amenyo
Ibi bigufasha gutangira umunsi wawe ufite ituze, umutuzo n’imbaraga nshya.
6. Ubundi Buryo Buzana Igikundiro (Favour) n’Amafaranga
a) Gushimira buri munsi
Gushimira bifungura imiryango y’umugisha.
“Mushimire muri byose.” (1 Abatesalonike 5:18)
b) Gutanga (Giving)
Iyo utanze, uba utegura kwakira byinshi.
“Mujye mutanga, namwe muzahabwa.” (Luka 6:38)
Gutera inkunga, gufasha abakene, cyangwa gutanga amaturo, byose bifite umugisha.
c) Gukora cyane no kugira discipline
Nta mugisha uza ku muntu udakora.
“Umunebwe azakena.” (Imigani 10:4)
d) Gutekereza neza (Positive mindset)
Ibitekerezo byawe bigena ubuzima bwawe.
“Nk’uko atekereza mu mutima we, ni ko ari.” (Imigani 23:7)
e) Kwirinda amagambo mabi
Ntukivuge nabi cyangwa ngo wemere amagambo agutesha agaciro.
7. Uko Wakurura Amafaranga mu Buryo Bwiza
Amafaranga ntaza gusa ku bw’amahirwe, aza no ku bw’imyitwarire:
- Kora ibintu bifite agaciro (skills)
- Shora mu bitekerezo byawe
- Irinde gusesagura
- Tegura ejo hazaza
Bibiliya iravuga iti:
“Imigambi y’umunyamwete imugeza ku bukire.” (Imigani 21:5)
8. Kwizera no Kwihangana
Ntugomba guhita ucika intege niba utabonye impinduka ako kanya.
“Kwizera ni ukumenya neza ibyo twiringiye.” (Abaheburayo 11:1)
9. Ubutumwa Bukomeye: Uri Umuntu Ufite Agaciro
Nta n’umwe ugomba kukubwira ko utagaciro ufite. Uri umuntu waremwe n’Imana ufite intego.
“Naguteye ubwoba mu buryo butangaje.” (Zaburi 139:14)
10. Umwanzuro
Gukurura umugisha (favour) si amarozi, si ibintu bidasobanutse. Ni ihuriro ry’ibintu byinshi:
- Kwizera Imana
- Kuvuga amagambo meza
- Gutekereza neza
- Gukora cyane
- Gushimira no gutanga
Uburyo bwo gukoresha ubuki mu gitondo ni ikimenyetso cyiza cyo gutangira umunsi ufite icyizere n’umugisha, ariko icy’ingenzi kurushaho ni umutima wawe, ukwizera kwawe, n’ibyo uvuga.
Tangira uyu munsi, wizere, usenge, uvuge ibyiza ku buzima bwawe… kandi uzabona impinduka.
