Mu Karere ka Rubavu hongeye kumvikana inkuru y’akababaro yashegeshe imitima ya benshi. Ni inkuru y’umuryango warokotse ibihe bikomeye ariko ukaza guhura n’akaga katari gateganyijwe, ubuzima bukarangira mu kanya nk’ako guhumbya. Abana batatu na se wabo baguye mu mpanuka y’imodoka ubwo bari bavuye mu materaniro y’Isabato, bagana mu rugo bishimye nk’uko bisanzwe ku miryango myinshi isubira mu buzima bwa buri munsi nyuma yo gusenga.
Iyi mpanuka yabaye mu gihe cy’amanywa, mu muhanda uhuza ibice bitandukanye by’aka karere, aho bivugwa ko imodoka barimo yagize ikibazo gitunguranye igatakaza icyerekezo, bikarangira igonganye bikomeye. Abaturage bahise bihutira gutabara, ariko byari byatinze. Abana batatu bari bafite ejo hazaza heza imbere yabo, n’umubyeyi wabo wari umutware w’urugo, bose bitaba Imana mu kanya gato.
Icyatumye iyi nkuru irushaho kubabaza ni uko nyina w’abo bana atari kumwe na bo muri iyo modoka. Yari yasigaye ku rusengero muri gahunda za korali. Nk’uko byemezwa n’abari hafi aho, nyuma y’akanya gato avuye mu rusengero, yakiriye telefone imubwira inkuru iteye ubwoba: umugabo we n’abana be batatu bose bapfuye. Ni inkuru idashoboka kwakira mu buryo bworoshye. Ni amagambo asenya umutima, asenya inzozi, asenya icyizere cy’ejo hazaza.
Abamuzi bavuga ko uwo mubyeyi yari umugore wiyubashye, witangiye urugo rwe n’itorero, akunda cyane abana be. Kuba yarasigaye ku rusengero mu murimo wa korali ni ikintu cyari gisanzwe mu buzima bwe bwa buri cyumweru. Nta n’umwe wari gutekereza ko uwo mwanya wo gusigara inyuma gato ari wo wari kumurokora, ariko kandi ukamwambura abo yakundaga bose icyarimwe.
Abaturanyi n’inshuti z’umuryango bahise bihutira kumuhumuriza, ariko amagambo menshi ntacyo aba amaze imbere y’akababaro nk’ako. Hari abibajije bati: “Uyu mubyeyi azahozwa na nde?” Ni ikibazo cyumvikanamo agahinda n’ukutamenya aho umuntu ahera. Iyo umuntu apfushije uwo bashakanye, akababaro karakomeye; iyo apfushije umwana, umutima urasandara. Ariko iyo apfushije umugabo n’abana batatu icyarimwe, ni ibikomere bisiga icyuho kinini mu buzima bwe bwose.
Iyi mpanuka yongeye kwerekana ikibazo gikomeye cy’umutekano wo mu muhanda. Mu myaka ishize, mu Rwanda hakomeje gushyirwa imbaraga mu kubaka no kuvugurura imihanda, gushyiraho amategeko akomeye agenga ibinyabiziga n’abatwara. Polisi y’u Rwanda yakomeje kwibutsa abatwara ibinyabiziga kubahiriza umuvuduko wagenwe, kudatwara basinze no kugenzura ubuziranenge bw’ibinyabiziga. Nubwo hari intambwe imaze guterwa, impanuka ziracyahitana ubuzima bwa benshi.
Mu Karere ka Rubavu, nk’ahandi henshi, hari imihanda inyura mu misozi no mu bibaya, aho umuvuduko udakwiye cyangwa imodoka idafite feri nziza bishobora guteza akaga gakomeye. Abatwara ibinyabiziga bamwe birengagiza kugenzura imodoka zabo mbere yo gutwara urugendo rurerure. Hari n’abarenza umuvuduko kubera kwihuta cyangwa kwigira ibitangaza, bakibagirwa ko ubuzima bw’abantu babatwaye buri mu biganza byabo.
Iyi nkuru kandi itwibutsa ko ubuzima ari nk’umwuka. Uva mu rugo utekereza ko uri busubiremo nimugoroba, ariko bikarangira ari bwo bwa nyuma ubona abo wakundaga. Abana batatu bari bavuye mu isabato bishimye, wenda bavuga indirimbo baririmbye cyangwa amasomo bize. Nta n’umwe wari uzi ko iminota mike iri imbere ari yo ya nyuma mu buzima bwabo.
Ku ruhande rw’imitekerereze n’imibereho y’umuryango, birasaba ko inzego zitandukanye zirushaho kwegera uyu mubyeyi n’abandi bose bahuye n’akaga nk’aka. Hari akamaro kanini ko gutanga ubujyanama mu by’ihungabana (trauma counseling), kuko ibikomere by’amarangamutima bishobora kumara igihe kirekire. Itorero, inshuti, umuryango mugari n’inzego z’ibanze bakwiye kumuba hafi, ntibibe iby’igihe gito cyo gushyingura gusa, ahubwo no mu minsi n’amezi bizakurikiraho.
Ibi kandi bikwiye kubera isomo buri wese. Ababyeyi bagomba kumva ko gutwara abana babo bisaba ubwitonzi bukabije. Abatwara imodoka rusange bagomba kumenya ko ubuzima bw’abantu benshi bubarimo butagomba gushyirwa mu kaga kubera uburangare cyangwa inyungu z’inyongera. Gukoresha imodoka itameze neza, kurenza umuvuduko, gukoresha telefone utwaye, cyangwa kutubahiriza ibimenyetso byo mu muhanda ni ibikorwa bishobora kurangira mu marira nk’aya.
Hari abavuga ko impanuka ari ibyago, ariko akenshi hari impamvu zishobora kwirindwa. Iyo imodoka igenzuwe neza, feri zigakora uko bikwiye, amapine akagenzurwa, n’umuvuduko ugakurikizwa, ibyago bigabanuka cyane. Iyo imihanda ifite ibimenyetso bigaragara neza n’amatara ahagije nijoro, umutekano urushaho kwiyongera. Iyo abagenzura ibinyabiziga bakora akazi kabo nta burangare, imodoka zitujuje ibisabwa zikavanwa mu muhanda, ubuzima bwinshi burarokoka.
Uyu mubyeyi w’i Rubavu akeneye ihumure rirenze amagambo. Akeneye kumva ko atari wenyine, ko igihugu n’abaturage bamuri hafi. Ariko kuruta byose, akeneye ko urupfu rw’umugabo we n’abana be rutaba impfabusa. Niba hari icyakwigwa kuri iyi mpanuka, ni ugukaza ingamba zo gukumira izindi.
Ni muri urwo rwego dusaba Leta y’u Rwanda gukomeza no kurushaho gukaza ingamba zo kurwanya impanuka zo mu muhanda. Hakwiye kongerwa ubukangurambaga ku mutekano wo mu muhanda, cyane cyane mu turere dukunze kuberamo impanuka. Ibinyabiziga byose bikwiye kugenzurwa kenshi kandi mu buryo butanyuranyije n’amategeko, harebwa niba byujuje ibisabwa mbere yo kwemererwa kujya mu muhanda. Abatwara bagaragayeho amakosa akomeye bakwiye guhanwa by’intangarugero, kugira ngo bibe isomo ku bandi.
Nanone, birakenewe ko hashyirwaho uburyo buhoraho bwo gusuzuma imihanda ishobora guteza ibyago, igasanwa cyangwa igashyirwaho ibimenyetso by’inyongera. Ikoranabuhanga nko gushyiraho camera zigenzura umuvuduko rishobora gufasha kugabanya amakosa y’abatwara.
Ubuzima bw’abana batatu n’umubyeyi wabo burangiriye mu muhanda, ariko ubutumwa busigaye ni ubukomeye: umutekano wo mu muhanda si inshingano za Leta yonyine, ni inshingano ya buri wese. Ariko kandi, Leta ifite uruhare rukomeye mu gushyiraho amategeko no kugenzura ishyirwa mu bikorwa ryayo.
Mu gusoza, twihanganishije uyu mubyeyi wabuze umugabo n’abana be, tukamusabira imbaraga zo kwihangana muri ibi bihe bikomeye. Twizeye ko azahabwa ubufasha bukwiye mu by’umutima no mu mibereho. Ariko tunasaba ko uru rupfu rubabaje rwabera isomo rikomeye abayobozi n’abaturage bose, maze hakazwa ingamba zo kurinda ubuzima bw’abanyarwanda mu muhanda. Nta mubyeyi wagombye kongera kwakira telefone imubwira ko umugabo we n’abana be bose bapfuye bazize impanuka yashoboraga kwirindwa. Ubuzima ni ingirakamaro, kandi bugomba kurindwa kurusha ibindi byose